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It’s not about being smart, good-looking, or rich. Getting what YOU want, building a life YOU love, is all about the three Cs. CONTROL: We’re not talking about controlling yourself, though that’s not a bad idea. And we’re definitely not talking about controlling others because that’s impossible!

  • CONTROL means using the control factors in life, the rules of the game, to get what YOU want and to help others get what they want.
  • CONNECT, not just with peers and school friends. CONNECT means making YOURSELF a full partner with adults who already live the life YOU love.
  • COPE means exactly what you think it means. Deal with it! Learn healthier ways, better ways to make YOU feel better when you mess up or YOU feel stressed.